I posed this question on my gymnastics blog. And got a big reaction from a number of coaches.
Everyone (so far) agrees that our kids are suffering long-term from not being more challenged.
I’m not looking for SPARTA, but it is time for a backlash. The benefits gymnastics coaches and parents see in competitive gymnasts are exactly those needed by all children.
Wordsmith from Nantucket wrote:
I think the fear of lawsuits has dictated much of what I consider to be “bad” changes in our society. It’s insulated us from “hurting ourselves”, but in so doing, has disarmed us of the tools we would otherwise develop as part of the maturation process in dealing with life…with learning to cope with adversity and conflict.
It’s similar to how we developed all these anti-bacterial products, from soap to baby toys – all in the hopes that it would protect us from getting sick. But exposure to some sicknesses, early on in life, is what makes our immune system stronger. ….
Here are some articles and studies that might be of interest:
Yep, life’ll burst that self-esteem bubble”
Enough already with kid-gloves
The Power and Perils of Praising your kids
I really do think that there is something about our society (at least what I see with kids here in Los Angeles) that is developing soft, mushy kids. Emotionally and physically. ….
Read the post and the rest of the comments.

source – New York Magazine





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